I hate those situations.
You know, when you are put in a spot between your friends and your bfy.
If it was the previous me, I would definitely put friends first.
I'm not saying like my previous bfys arent of any equal importance.
But I'm more of a person whereby I rather my friends to not feel left out, as compared to my bfy.
Because I understand how it feels like to have your friend only entertaining their other half and you're sitting there like an idiot.
I hate that feeling.
Unless you're with other bunch of friends and your friend can talk to them. Then it won't be much of an issue already.
And I expect my bfy to understand that I will accompany my friend more when we are together with other friends.
They do, but on the other hand I'd probably hurt them somehow (I guess) because it shows that friends are more important to me in a way.
It has became an issue too in my previous relationship.
But you know what? Whenever I accompany that friend/ friends whenever it is in those situations, the end result when that friend has their other half, things are never vice versa.
Their other half is of more importance to you instead.
Laugh, so silly of me.
I've learnt.
And sad to say, I really prioritize my current bfy so much more than friends now.
Of cos, I would strike a balance if I can.
But if I have to make a choice, I would put my bfy first before anyone already. Especially those that I had wrong judgements about.
And that jejune you, since you are with other friends of ours and you said that I and bfy are spending couple moments together instead of interacting with you all,
I make the effort to organise the outing indirectly for you
You were late, you were not fucking appreciative at all,
I don't care if you're jealous or what, but hello,
When I and bfy tried to talk to you all, we were ignored. Knnbpcb, then might as well we talk to each other instead?
And please, we did not PDA or whatever shit.
Just fucking hold hands. You got a problem with that?
How is that spending couple moments? I don't get it.
So fucking fucking angry with you.
Dumbest decision ever to invite you back into the group.
Tsk.
Angsty jessie.
Kbye.
You know, when you are put in a spot between your friends and your bfy.
If it was the previous me, I would definitely put friends first.
I'm not saying like my previous bfys arent of any equal importance.
But I'm more of a person whereby I rather my friends to not feel left out, as compared to my bfy.
Because I understand how it feels like to have your friend only entertaining their other half and you're sitting there like an idiot.
I hate that feeling.
Unless you're with other bunch of friends and your friend can talk to them. Then it won't be much of an issue already.
And I expect my bfy to understand that I will accompany my friend more when we are together with other friends.
They do, but on the other hand I'd probably hurt them somehow (I guess) because it shows that friends are more important to me in a way.
It has became an issue too in my previous relationship.
But you know what? Whenever I accompany that friend/ friends whenever it is in those situations, the end result when that friend has their other half, things are never vice versa.
Their other half is of more importance to you instead.
Laugh, so silly of me.
I've learnt.
And sad to say, I really prioritize my current bfy so much more than friends now.
Of cos, I would strike a balance if I can.
But if I have to make a choice, I would put my bfy first before anyone already. Especially those that I had wrong judgements about.
And that jejune you, since you are with other friends of ours and you said that I and bfy are spending couple moments together instead of interacting with you all,
I make the effort to organise the outing indirectly for you
You were late, you were not fucking appreciative at all,
I don't care if you're jealous or what, but hello,
When I and bfy tried to talk to you all, we were ignored. Knnbpcb, then might as well we talk to each other instead?
And please, we did not PDA or whatever shit.
Just fucking hold hands. You got a problem with that?
How is that spending couple moments? I don't get it.
So fucking fucking angry with you.
Dumbest decision ever to invite you back into the group.
Tsk.
Angsty jessie.
Kbye.
